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Bridal Prayer
Shawl
In December, 2001, as a volunteer for the Synod
Resource Center, I uploaded the open file,
A
Prayer Shawl Knitting Ministry This resource
came from the Prayer
Shawl Ministry directed by Bette Shellhorn.
That Easter I found myself knitting a prayer shawl
for my brother who was involved in a serious
motorcycle accident. A month later I was knitting
one for my mother who had a heart attack. I found
the knitting experience to be very rewarding
spiritually and emotionally in those troubled
times. When my son recently announced his
engagement and forthcoming wedding, I found myself
thinking about praying for him and his future wife
and the idea was born to knit a prayer shawl out of
happiness, with prayers for their marriage and
future life together woven into it. In doing a
little more searching, I found that some prayer
shawls used 39 stitches because that is the
numerical equivalent of the Hebrew words "the Lord
is One". That had implications for their future
life together as one in Christ, so I decided to use
the same knitting pattern as the original prayer
shawls, but to cast on 39 stitches and use larger
needles. The shawl is shown at the left about half
finished. Then I thought about how I could involve
other family members in this happy task. The final
part of the shawl is to add fringe, so I cut pieces
for fringing and sent them on to relatives and
asked them to hold the fringe and add their prayers
for the couple. I included the prayer that I'm
using as I knit and invited them to send back the
fringe to add to the shawl and their own prayers to
share with the couple. I will give the shawl to my
future daughter-in-law at her bridal shower.
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Here is the prayer, modified from the
original Prayer for a Mantle of Healing by
Cathleen Murtha, DW, to reflect the marriage
emphasis:
In the name of God: the Creator, the Giver of
Life, and the Holder of Time;
In the name of Jesus: the Savior, the Giver of
Gifts, and the Source of Love;
In the name of the Spirit: the Sanctifier, the
Giver of Faith, and the Sustainer of Life.
I knit this shawl as a mantle of strength, a
mantle of unity, a mantle of patience.
I knit this shawl as a mantle of caring, a mantle
of love, a mantle of wholeness.
I knit this shawl as a mantle of joy, a mantle to
enfold you, a mantle to encircle you.
Gracious God, you are always faithful in your
love for us. Look mercifully upon Amy and Martin,
who come to you seeking your blessing on their
marriage. Let your Holy spirit rest upon them so
that with steadfast love they may honor the
promises they will make. May the prayers woven into
this shawl fill them with hope and encouragement,
through Jesus Christ our Loving Savior. Amen
(For other Prayer Shaw Ministry ideas,
visit additional links under Personal
Growth Web Links)
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