| Some Thoughts about Being "Companions"
 1. Our global mission relationships take time
            to grow into true accompaniment. That is ... we walk with
            our partner seeking to step at their pace ... seeking to
            see and understand their present context.
            
            
               Accompaniment is the manner of ELCA's global
               mission relationships. It is characterized by "A
               walking together in solidarity that practices
               interdependence1," honoring of each other's integrity
               and wholeness, participatory decision-making, and
               mutuality.The concept of accompaniment calls for a
               fundamental change in the implementation of global
               mission. A primary reality of accompaniment is the
               mutual respect of the companions with whom mission is
               shared.Accompaniment challenges us to overcome the
               donor-receiver model whereby the Northern partner
               assumes the role of the donor and the Southern
               companion that of the receiver. 2. The role of a bishop or president in each church
            is understood by most as a critical one ... to represent
            a wider set of concentric circles is viewed as of great
            importance. 
               The synodical leaders set the tone and the manner
               of the ELCA's companion relationship(s) by
               establishing an early connection with the companion
               church and its leader.In relating to and visiting the companion, be a
               spiritual leader who is prepared to pray, preach,
               preside, administer sacraments, share scripture, offer
               blessings and words of encouragement, and express
               solidarity and fellowship in Jesus Christ.Conduct yourself in ways that show deep respect
               and ability to interpret differences in culture and
               tradition. 3. The role of the bishop or president goes beyond
            sending persons from our synod to another part of the
            world. It also includes providing oversight to a fabric
            of relationships and understandings. 
               Connect with companions at the level of our common
               faith, honoring the companion's leadership and history
               as well as the ELCA's history and relationship(s) in
               mission with this church.Respect the Christian faith as expressed in
               cultures that give more value to community in contrast
               to North American traditions of individualism and
               self-expression.Ritual Leadership - Understand the bishop's
               important ritual role in occasions that give public
               expression to shared fellowship and mission such as
               consecrations and installations of bishops. 4. Our relationships grow when we understand that
            gifts are being unveiled and offered to us through
            sisters and brothers in our companion churches. In my
            synodical ministry, it is helpful to ask what have I
            received as a gift that informs what I am doing. 
               Be ready to learn and receive what the host wishes
               to share and plan.Ensure the participation and public leadership of
               synod women clergy and leaders in visits to the
               companion.Develop skills for setting boundaries and offering
               dignity in response to inappropriate gestures of
               requests by both companions and synod members. 5. Many will find it helpful to sharpen and define
            the purposes of each companion church visit ... both ways
            ... stewardship ... lay Bible study ... structured for
            mission etc.  
               Seek counsel from DGM if your synod visitors
               intend to serve in ministries or work.Visit your companion with "empty hands."Carry a bishop's travel kit with items that
               express the bishop's public office such as a bishop's
               fuchsia shirt (where expected), bishop's cross, Bible,
               and token gifts that symbolize the spiritual nature of
               the companion relationship.Ensure the ritual leadership of a visiting bishop
               or church leader to the ELCA synod and its public
               events and special occasions. 6. In our society many of us seek to be doers (at
            least I do) in companion visits ... it is important that
            we seek to nourish both the doing and the being within
            us. 
               The synod should find creative ways to re-channel
               the efforts of entrepreneurs whose activities destroy
               mutuality and do not serve the mission of the
               whole. 7. Groups from our synod seek to be a great gift
            and to learn much. Occasionally, one can be tinkering in
            something wider or deeper than we understand...keeping
            the ELCA-DGM Area Program Director up to speed with what
            we are planning/doing/hearing is of great help. 
               Ensure that the purposes of visits are transparent
               and synod representatives are accountable as
               representatives of the ELCA and your synod.Consult with DGM Area Program Director for
               critical information in ELCA's relationships with the
               companion church, its structures, and other partner
               relationships.Become acquainted with any written agreements the
               ELCA (and other mission partners) have with the
               companion church. 8. Gifts carry great meaning beyond their apparent
            value. In some cases they become "cargo" with all kinds
            of expectations or "trappings" attached that are real or
            not real. As citizens of the U.S., many of us need
            lifelong learning to understand the complexities of
            this. 
               Sharing of financial assistance should be done
               only after the relationship is well established
               through sharing of visits, ministries, communications,
               spiritual fellowship.Financial projects should be undertaken in
               consultation with the DGM Area Program Director to
               maximize the effectiveness of the project within the
               overall strategies of the church and its international
               mission partners.Financial assistance should be given to projects
               that do not create further financial obligations or
               budget burdens for the companion. Contributions should
               not be given to ongoing functioning costs such as
               salaries and operating budgets.The bishop and synod leadership should be in
               communication with the synod's pastors and
               congregations, informing them of the synod's official
               companion projects and opportunities to participate.
                9. A helpful response as a companion church is to
            grow in the understanding we have of each other's context
            ... to advocate and be aware of justice issues, crises or
            persecution means reading and discussion. 
               Make advocacy a primary focus of your companion
               relationship!Consult with DGM for information regarding
               advocacy efforts undertaken by the companion church
               and ELCA's advocacy by DCS-LOGA. 10. Transparency is a twelve-letter word that
            reminds us how valuable it is to have all the people who
            might be involved know what we are up to, what we are
            thinking or planning. 
               Be attentive to who needs to be informed or copied
               when communicating.Know who in the companion's national office should
               be informed in what circumstances if your synod's
               relationship is with a small judicatory of a large
               church.Inform appropriate staff at DGM.Be transparent about plans for financial support
               with both DGM and the companion church's
               leadership. An illustration might help .... Joseph Campbell once said . . . "Where we thought to
         travel outward, we shall come to the center of our own
         existence. Where we had thought to be alone, we shall be
         with all the world." Presented to the Conference of Bishops by Bishop Gary
         Hansen, October 3, 2000 1. Global Mission in the Twenty-first Century, Chicago:
         Evangelical Lutheran Church in America, Division for Global
         Mission, 1999, p.5.Evangelical Lutheran Church in
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